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If you interpret my words in bad faith, that’s on you, not on me.

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FUB free. ‘Cause I’m here to rant a lot and be a heavy retweeter, usually.


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somnophilia literally can be done with consent

Hey so still insane

aceesecrets's tweet image. Hey so still insane


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ambil keputusan, memimpin, dan inisiatif tu harusnya basic life skill ga si? ga cowok ga cewek harus bisa sama kaya cewek pas bilang cowok harus ngerti kerjaan domestik gitu, lho basic life skill.

Gamau. Meskipun ganteng kalo gabisa ambil keputusan memimpin dan inisiatif, tetep tak tolak. Kalo dalam hubungan aku maunya jadi cewek, bukan cowok. Titik. Mungkin ada cewek lain yang oke oke aja. Aku gamau. Aku benci cowok yang ga kompeten.



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'Pokoknya suamiku harus lebih dominan dr aku kalo nggak aku KDRT' tell me what part of that sentence sounds normal to you.

Kata orang-orang gapapa gapapa. Gapapa mbahmu, kalo cowoknya tak rendahin terus jadi depresi tuh cowok. Mending kalo cuma tak rendahin. Kalo tak aniaya gimana? Kalo meninggal gimana? Gabisa aku menghargai cowok yang ga kompeten. Apalagi jadi pasangan.



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Fully jealous of anyone who can run to their parents when they feel down because when I’m going through a lot, my parents are the last people I’d think of sharing it with.

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The longer i go without something, the more i'm very okay with never having it again. And once i detach from someone or something completely, reconnection with me becomes impossible because i know what it took for me to finally let go. Once i'm done, i'm done.


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blame your fuckass government then. pendidikan tidak merata & tidak semua orang bisa mendapatkan akses pendidikan yang proper. try to live outside of your bubble and see people would do anything to survive inc to get proper access to education

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No, because the ways we think are different and I avoid avoidable unnecessary problems. I love you, mom. But really, I don’t think she can relate and understand.

Do y'all share your problems with your parents? Like you're going through some hard times or heartbreak, do you confide in your parents?



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Y'all be having the stupidest shit to say if the victim isn't the perfect victim.


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ppl will tell you they wanna be your safe space just so they can inflict military grade psychological warfare on you. no thanks, i’m safe!!


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Coba kalian pikir sendiri: Berapa banyak konsep / pendapat yang enggan diterima sama sejumlah orang Indonesia, kecuali kalo konsepnya itu dicarikan padanan "Barat" / "asing"-nya? Sebut saja 1-2 hak, urusan kebebasan A, B, C pakai bahasa sehari2 di Indonesia, hasil pikir sendiri,…

Ini salah satu alasan mengapa aku sendiri kurang suka berdiskusi dengan jenis "filsuf" atau orang2 "filsafat". Mereka ini ya (terutama orang Indonesia) banyak yang model2 diskusinya itu dengan mengutip ahli-barat tertentu, lalu menganggap seolah-olah aku harus nerima pendapat…



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You just have to accept the fact some people are at war with themselves and it’s not you.


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Hot take, trans people do not owe ANYONE the info that they are trans and only need to disclose if they are doing something involving their parts (only for safety) Just chatting or making out at a bar? Don't owe shit! Blowing someone in the bathroom? Don't owe shit!!!


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for some people, life doesn’t truly begin until they’re 26-30. the way we romanticize and obsess over youth is super harmful.. your life is not over at 21, i promise you. it’s just beginning


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Buat Cisgay/CisBiMale yang ikut2an nyalahin Dea coba jawab ini dulu: - Are you openly gay at your workplace? Selama nggak, apa bedanya kita Cisgay/CisBiMale yang pura-pura straight dengan Dea yang pura-pura jadi CisFemale? Buat hetero yang cocotnya kencono, dua kata, "Lo Bacot"

The fact that she not only Trans women but also has hard of hearing disability meanwhile some of you all transphobic & ableist blame her to explain is so much make sense. We, Trans and Queer never safe to be who we are.



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this is why i dislike the conception of “laki tuh gini” “perempuan tuh gini”. i know we need some categorization in some aspects of our life but this one is not necessarily needed. being “me” and “you” is basically enough and that shouldn’t dictate how you should act

Ngakak replynya pada "boti masa ada cewe" "isnt he gay" Bro saat seorang PRIA tidak TUNDUK pada maskulinitas mainstream, ga berarti dia gay anjeng😭 look, dia bahkan dapet cewe cakep ga kaya lu lu pada yang sok maskulin tp gak laku laku😭 at this point y'all look gayer than HIM



Don’t put words into my mouth and neither do I into anyone else’s.


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I think people who do use the right pronouns out of respect are better than transphobes idk. like maybe they don't understand and they're not fully educated, but I'm also giving them grace because they may not understand it but they're still trying

using the right pronouns is not a sign of respect, its a sign of belief in the tangible reality of being trans. if you are just using pronouns out of respect then you do not believe that person is the gender they claim, and you're no better than any transphobe



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Why do people take terfs seriously when they contradict themselves? They claim anyone can wear what they want, then whinge when they don’t perceive clothes as matching the wearer’s gender. Terf ideology is basically: “Dresses are MY marketing demographic, you can’t have them.”


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