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The Frost System

@FrostSystem

Queer neuroasexual gay genderqueer plural disabled autistic spoonie. Languages: Eng/Kor/Esp, Jpn (sorta) Pronouns: xe/it + neos

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Dreamsexuality is apart of the ace spectrum (it is in no way associated with the YouTuber) and is an actual sexuality. There are some aces who have sexual attraction during dreams or when daydreaming; dreams and fantasies aren’t consent and being a dreamsexual is valid.


International Asexuality Day gave our system the courage to reactivate our social media presence. Thank you @IADofficial 💜


One of the source groups for some of our K-pop fictives has disbanded. It’s really hard for some of our alters to keep going as a result. Please send us your love. Thank you.


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The idea that all cis women and AFABs are demisexual comes from the expectation that we are “pure” beings who never seek sex for pleasure and that sex will be a chore that we just put up with, therefore lumping anything ace in with purity culture’s idea of femininity


We need this. 🌈

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hey… lets not refer to allosexuals who use the split attraction model as predators ? ? ?


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good morning, here’s a thread on why demisexuality is included within #thegrayarea between asexuality and not being asexual and is under the asexuality spectrum 🧵


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Why Coming Out as Demisexual Matters just as much as any other orientation coming out 🌈 — link.medium.com/Yfdmu3K0gsb

scretladyspider's tweet image. Why Coming Out as Demisexual Matters just as much as any other orientation coming out 🌈 — 
link.medium.com/Yfdmu3K0gsb

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Re sharing this for #PrideMonth. Dating aces doesn’t require ‘solutions’. Dating an ace isn’t a problem that needs solved. We are not puzzled waiting to be assembled. All relationships— romantic or otherwise — need communication and respect of one another’s boundaries.

I kind of don’t like when polyamory is presented as a “solution” to dating an ace spectrum person for allosexuals. There are polyamorous ace people of course, but when it’s presented as “here’s how to make a relationship with an ace work if you’re allo” without regard to 🧵



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Since it’s #PrideMonth and demisexuals are a part of the alphabet soup community I’d like to address the common misconception that demisexuality was invented as part of a role play on tumblr when in actuality it came from discussions on the @asexuality message boards in 2006 🧵


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Here’s your #PrideMonth reminder that men can be asexual and women can be aromantic and neither sexual nor romantic attraction is determined solely by gender (tho the experiences can absolutely be linked)


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A great thing about being aromantic is that it provides a limitless understanding of the language we can use to express love. Our orientations break down attraction in a unique way that's important for the inclusion of nuanced intimacy and its so nice to feel free in my identity


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Shoutout to all the demisexuals and graysexuals today. Im proud of you. We rock. Don’t let the world tell you that we don’t. 🖤🤍💜


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TW for acephobia Good morning to being called a degenerate for talking about asexuality and mental health. I worked a month on that thread. Anyway. Don’t engage, just block if you see him.

scretladyspider's tweet image. TW for acephobia

Good morning to being called a degenerate for talking about asexuality and mental health. I worked a month on that thread. 

Anyway. Don’t engage, just block if you see him.

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If you don't love sex-repulsed people, you don't 'love asexuals'. Let me repeat that. IF YOU DON'T LOVE SEX-REPULSED PEOPLE, YOU DON'T 'LOVE ASEXUALS'.


Or maybe sex-repulsed ace folks exist and want to watch a single movie/TV show without having to skip through parts of it? 🌈

Not to belabor the point, but “most sex scenes in film/tv are unnecessary and useless” is on a continuum with “sex should only ever be procreative”



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List of articles about the BIPOC and/or black experiences on being asexual — a thread🧵


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Cleaning your room when you’re #LivingWithDID really does feel like sorting through other lives sometimes. #dissociatwt


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Yasmin setup a groundbreaking asexuality project with Stonewall UK – then came the culture warriors inews.co.uk/opinion/ground…


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tired of allos constantly debating on whether aspec people are oppressed or not. stop. you are not us. you don't know our experiences. you don't know what we go through.


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