You didn't just hurt her, you hurt her while she was battling silent wars: family stress, loneliness, mental health struggles, and unspoken pain and through it all, she still tried to be the best for you... That's not just a mistake. That's where you failed as a man.
The more you forgive a narcissist, the more their behaviour escalates-each act of forgiveness is seen as permission, not compassion.
It kinda makes me sad when i reflect back on instances where people knew exactly what they were doing and how it would hurt me and went ahead anyway. The ease of being casually so insidious will never not shock me.
Bro listen, the fact that you would rather completely disconnect from the woman you claim to love than face the reality of your actions reveals so much about your character and limitations. It's not just that you hurt her. It's the fact you continue to choose your own emotional…
There's a devastating kind of trauma that comes from realising the person you loved, and believed loved you, didn't just hurt you by accident. They wanted to see you in pain. They wanted to break you. And sometimes, they wanted you to destroy yourself.
The toxic monster you saw in the end is who they truly are. Never doubt yourself again when they pretend to play nice.
People lack accountability, then be like, "You could've just talked to me." No, I couldn't lol. You don't listen. You deflect. You gaslight. You make me feel like I'm the problem for bringing it up. So no, I stayed silent to protect my peace, not because I didn't want to fix it.
Please stop waiting for avoidant-oriented people to circle back with the closure they never gave. Their departure, their silence, their lack of repair, and their unwillingness to be vulnerable speaks volumes about their limitations, NOT your worth.
Narcissists never apologize, they just rewrite the story to make themselves the victim. They’ll break you, then act broken. They’ll hurt you, then say you’re too sensitive. Accountability isn’t in their vocabulary, only blame, projection, and manipulation.
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