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People will do all they can to tarnish your image, smear your personality etc but take heart because no matter what they do they can’t take away your good deeds. Let them say what they want. The Almighty knows the truth & those who know you better won’t fall for such cheap shots!

Promote peace and harmony all the time. May Allaah safeguard us

Join us Insha Allah later today to continue our discussion on building and managing relationships the Halal way before marriage.

No matter how much you regret it or worry about what happened, the past is over. You can’t change a thing. But you can come to terms with the fact that everything happens for a reason. Live in the present where the Almighty has given you the options to restore calm to your heart!

Don’t be surprised if people try to detour you from your path when you’re doing well and headed in the right direction. It’s a normal human trait. Recognize it. Know their game and be on full alert. Stand your ground politely but firmly. Do what you must and don’t be distracted.

Check your “friends” list from time to time. If you have more of those who are only there when you’re smiling, it’s time to rethink the list! Keep those who are there for you when you face storms in life close to your heart. They’re the ones whose friendship you need to nurture

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How to improve your social skills: 1 say 'thank you' and 'please' 2 do not respond to negativity 3 remember people's names 4 smile more 5 be gracefully honest 6 hold doors open 7 be kind and humble 8 talk less, but say more 9 listen without interrupting 10 do not brag or nitpick

Are you among those who when asked for advice, you hardly ever try to understand the person’s unique situation & needs; you give advice based on your own bitterness & cynicism; you live in a constant state of dissatisfaction. If that’s you, it’s time to be more compassionate!

Read the signs when the Almighty’s telling you to move on. Don’t put a question mark where He has put a full stop. It’s not in our capacity to fully comprehend all that’s going on. Only He does. Our job is to trust Him. But know that He will heal the pain & mend the broken heart!

There’s a deadly disease, it is not malaria or typhoid,it is not Ebola or AIDS, it is a disease of the heart,it is the desire to see someone fail,the hate of Allah’s blessings on someone,it is called ENVY, it destroys one’s good deeds just like fire consumes wood,avoid it,REPENT!

Some people especially love it when they hear something that makes someone look bad. They seem to thrive on it & can’t wait to spread it. Even though the temptation to gossip is powerful, you will always win when you choose NOT to engage in it. Make that commitment today.

Don’t judge people because they sin differently than you.

Some people just cannot communicate in a straightforward manner. They will use sarcasm as a defence mechanism, send mixed signals or act like nothing is wrong. If you cannot help such people, stay away from them. Life’s complicated enough without having to second-guess others!

You’re allowed to disagree with others, state your opinion respectfully but NEVER get physical or violent. This quality makes us distinct from animals! So be civilised, listen to what others are saying but avoid knee-jerk reactions. It would save you from a whole lot of regret!

In a world that’s trying to make you hate, judge & not care about others, learn to be considerate & compassionate. Be the bigger person. Be tolerant. Be the one who will go out of your way to help someone. Be the one showing kindness not just in bad times but all the time!

At times, we condemn good people because we disagree with them over a few issues. We refuse to see the good they’re doing. Disagreements do not automatically make a person extreme, bad or evil. Learn to distinguish between the one who respectfully disagrees & the one who is evil!

Even the nicest people have their limits! Don’t push them too far; don’t try to reach those limits. Once the boundary is crossed, they’ll never be the same person you used to know and you’ll only have yourself to blame! If you can’t be kind, remain quiet. Don’t hurt people!

Sometimes people can be difficult to deal with; refusing to apologise for their mistake, always insisting they’re right. Don’t get upset. Having the right perspective can help lighten your load. If it won’t matter in the long run, let it go & give it to the Almighty to sort out.

Sincerity is a secret between a person and the Almighty. It’s a priceless trait He has placed in the hearts of some people. The ones who strive to get close to Him, doing things only for His sake and not for fame, glory, wealth and status which will be useless in the Hereafter!