TEMIdayo
@temirap
Ph.D.| Therapist| Mental health advocate| Counseling Psychologist
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older women “you will forget all the pain once the baby is in your hands” E shey ma paro oshi gan bayi 😭 All you lot do is lie mehn
One of the hardest parts about being a therapist in a third world country is realizing that so many mental health struggles clients deal with come from deeper issues like poverty and lack of basic needs. Therapy can only do so much when survival is still the main concern.
And girl moms should stop calling their daughters “daddy’s side chick.”
Adults should stop referring to kids as "my husband" or "my wife" Stop it.
When a man misbehaves - he’s tagged as a woman or described with feminine adjectives. When a woman excels - it’s ‘Na man you be.’ I need everyone to be serious abeg. It’s big 2025, let’s stop misquoting people’s gender and assigning worth based on stereotypes. T. 🙏🏽
If you want to parent, you'll parent. Everyone who actively does it knows it's hard. A literal labor of love. If you don't want to you'll look for research that says it doesn't come naturally to you and expect the other parent to upend their lives in service of your archaic ideas
Now, that's better. A world where there's less stigma around autism is the kind of world I want to live in. Do your business, get your coins, just don't make things harder than it needs to be for people who are having a hard enough time already.
This is so deeply offensive! If you didn't post about it tho, you'd have missed the chance to hear how awful an idea it is, so maybe review? Let's even say you're creating awareness, how does feeding into the stereotype help? Ọdẹ? As if the stigma they face is not bad enough🤦🏾♀️
The living breathing person in front of you is talking about their suffering, you can't be kind to them because "they didn't speak kindly of the deceased" Did you not see that they were actually responding to a question asking why they haven't taken their own life? So they...
If you haven't experienced @TomilolaCoco's style of writing, you really should . She is truly talented! She is a Nigerian through and through —it shows in her writing. You can't read her story without visualizing it. She is that good of a writer!
The feelings of helplessness, knowing you're powerless, going against an entrenched system that will make a scapegoat of you if you dare resist.
Any woman okay with being called an inseminated person and claims to fight for women’s rights, is obtuse. They have reduced you to reproduction. They have reduced mothering to being injected with sperm. How can you not see that this is misogyny? You are not woke, you are asleep.
They changed the title “mother” to now be “inseminated person”, just so men who want to become women can feel accepted. Still a man’s world after all, and it’s now the women who are advocating for it. Too painful that we’re going in circles and we still don’t realize it.
You can’t take our country — and you can’t take our game.
plus older generation o, plus current generation, what I'm gathering is that our beliefs about a child's rights, even as an adult, appear to be contingent on having financial resources. Until you can afford to escape, you have zero say about how you are treated😥
Im dead! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Humiliation is deeply engrained within many if not all Nigerian cultures. We humiliate kids, old people, humiliate people for holding honest jobs, humiliate employees. When everything revolves around money, we end up fanning a society devoid of dignity.
& some adults have made up their minds that you're devious & won't learn if they don't physically harm you. You barely just got here, yet to them,all your failed attempts at figuring out how things work are deliberately designed to frustrate them, making you deserving of violence
Idk, I kinda feel bad for toddlers man. They’ve got all these teeth coming in at once, growing pains, brain matter developing at an unprecedented rate, no context for the world or how it works. No wonder they’re melting your heart one minute and irrationally delirious the next
There's such an overabundance of shame reserved for women. If she terminates, shame. She keeps the baby, shame. She loses the baby, shame. Can't conceive, shame. Has only one, shame. Has many, shame. Leaves baby with caregiver to work, shame. Doesn't work to care for baby, shame
Toronto people were making fun of Calgary and Saskatoon weather last week, but everywhere is suddenly quiet today. The difference between the start of Alberta/Saskatchewan winter and Ontario winter is just one week these days 😂
"death by a thousand paper cuts" is something people who are really interested in having long term successful relationships should know about. It's a lesson many learn after the fact tho. Like that guy who wrote about his wife divorcing him because he left dishes by the sink.
and this really is the paradox. The person we discard our dreams for does not really want to be with a person who discards their dreams & betrays themselves. Their ego might desire (& demand) it, but deep down, they want an achiever. They respect go-getters not shrinkers.
Idk, I kinda feel bad for toddlers man. They’ve got all these teeth coming in at once, growing pains, brain matter developing at an unprecedented rate, no context for the world or how it works. No wonder they’re melting your heart one minute and irrationally delirious the next
"she made no efforts to get the children to safety or report to law enforcement" I hope those who insist on keeping things in the family, talking about how love covers a multitude of sins can see that they too are complicit and deserve consequences. Plus perp plus enabler, jail
The former wife of Arkansas evangelical pastor Jamie Cowan, who was sentenced to 50 years for raping his own children, has been charged for enabling the abuse. Charging documents show Mary Miller was fully aware of the horrific child rape that was occurring to her children.
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