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When you want your romantic life to be improved 20x, message me. It's my job to help you attract your life's greatest memories while maintaining total integrity

#Dating is complex because every person you go out with is different in personality & goals. HOWEVER, it’s more simplistic when you focus efforts on the part of dating that is a constant: YOU, your skills, your insights, your expressions, your values, your offers. Master those!


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Jealousy is love knocking with fear in its hands. Answer gently, and it becomes your teacher. #jealousy #relationships #rejection


Resentment repels. Attraction requires appreciation. There is always room to clean up your view towards the person/people you long to #attract and #love. #dating


Mark my words: dating is becoming a form of self improvement. In due time, the standard state of complaining will be viewed as pathetic…


You’ll always struggle to #attract who you are repulsed by… If you hate the #sex you #desire, don’t expect results!


People focus on the skill of #attracting a partner... That's valid... But few focus on how to sustain connection moving past the initial connection.


Give it a few years, people are going to start saying in the heat of #eroticism "talk dirty to me like #ChatGPT won't" #ai


In Modern #Dating & #Relationships: Easy: focus on the flaws in lovers Hard: focus on the positives in a lover Harder: search for the beauty and focus on giving the best experience more than receiving the best. Hardest: Doing the item above while maintaining healthy boundaries


#Women can tell you how you mess up, but only if you convince them you have open ears. #single #dating


Important Pattern: people who have limited #dating options tend to be hypercritical (and more alone because of it). People who have had an abundant dating/erotic life tend to find appreciation/love in more people. And those people tend to see #love as an action more than a match.


Curiosity is king. The moment you feel like you know everything is the start of when you’ll be proved wrong.


It's not all going to work out... But a lot will.


Comforting statements spread faster than the truth.


Dating should feel fun, playful, and exciting. If it's mostly frustrating, it limits connection, inspires defensive dating, and hurts first impressions. #dating #datingproblems


Sure, I prefer my kids are born/look attractive. However, I'd far prefer they are born/nurtured to be deeply curious about understanding love, lust, and integrity. (Context: talking about #dating, #attraction and #relationships).


If you work hard you have the chance of reaching mediocre. If you work hard AND SMART you have the chance of reaching your dream. #dating #love #relationships


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