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A roleplay 'dominant' is one who wants to conquer you, claim you, plant his flag of 'ownership'... and then disappear *poof* to conquer something (or someone) else. A real life dominant worth submitting to wants to actually rule you, guide you, show pride in ownership over you.
“As long as there is one upright man, as long as there is one compassionate woman, the contagion may spread and the scene is not desolate.”
Subs tend to think they shouldn't bother their dom with unimportant stuff. The problem is that what doms think is unimportant is "should I sweep or should I vacuum?" What subs think is unimportant is "I'm struggling with my basic self-worth. He can't possibly care about me."
This is so much fun. It really is being used too.
"Now comes a question of true submission, can you accept the responsibility that your orgasms must always be approved by another? Can you give a part of yourself to another Man. Can you give him the key to your sexual release?" - temptingdominance
This is also a good way to explain the mismatch between tops who claim they are dominant and those who actually are. Barking orders, even rough sex, do not a Dom Top make. While rough sex is fine and even fun, it's a different beast than sex with a dominant person or partner.
Just a reminder, a guy who prefers to be in control during sex is a top, not a dominant. A top briefly has 'power' over a bottom that is limited to only sex ("power exchange") A dominant has varying and negotiable amounts of 'authority' over a submissive ("authority transfer")
Hey, y'all realize that the top/bottom dynamic is not the same as the sub/dom thing, right?
“The whole point of authority transfer dynamics is to create relationships that are more secure, more reliable, deeper, more 'rock solid' than vanilla-kinky relationships that are loosely based on equality and 'conditional obedience'…”
If you are in a negotiated authority transfer dynamic, beyond just kinky bedroom play, there is no such thing as 'a conversation outside the dynamic'. In the majority of dynamics that extend beyond the bedroom, whatever way you have agreed to relate to each other continues
On 'claiming' vs. 'owning': Behavior is far more important than words (or pictures, or videos.) Online depictions of BDSM present a distorted view because the internet can only describe dynamics using words and pictures and videos, all of which are focused on the sexually
I slip into the virtual back of the Twitter discussion rooms to listen and learn from the conversation. Got mentioned a few ago by @HierarchyPcast. Thanks for the mention, @HierarchyPcast. Glad you are out and doing ok!
If you are in a negotiated authority transfer dynamic, beyond just kinky bedroom play, there is no such thing as 'a conversation outside the dynamic'. In the majority of dynamics that extend beyond the bedroom, whatever way you have agreed to relate to each other continues
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