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The_Narc_Decoder

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Survivor of #narcissistic abuse. Finally recovered & staying focused 🌟 💕 Healing was a lonely journey. Let's heal together 🙏🏽 🫂 #empath #emotionalabuse

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Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realise how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards the narcissist that harmed, misled, took advantage, and abused you!


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Some people can’t make peace with you because they know the lies they’ve told about you to others and there’s no reconciling that.


A narcissistic friend is just an enemy with a best friend mask 😷 on


Narcissists are never single, they’re just in between victims. They mirror you, hook you, drain you, then run to their next target like nothing happened. They don’t date, they recruit. New personality for every new victim.


If someone truly cares about you, it would break their heart to know they've hurt you. People make mistakes, but when you tell the narcissist they've caused you pain, they respond by gaslighting, deflecting, lying, or manipulating that's not love; it's ego. In these moments,…


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I never used to recognize people trying to bully me or put me down, because I actually love myself and their insults evaporated as soon as it left their mouths. It’s bittersweet because it never affected my spirit, but it had me staying in relationships and friendships with…


The reason people outside the relationship see the narcissist as a good person is because their spouse is acting as both their partner and their PR manager.


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A lot of men deliberately choose women who lack boundaries because it keeps the power in their hands. A woman who hasn’t developed discernment becomes easy to shape, easy to guilt trip, and eventually dependent on the man directing her life. For him, it creates a kind of built in…


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A lot of people just want to meet you to prove that you’re who you say you are and then move funny when they find out you’re everything you say you are….


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Walls keep everybody out. Boundaries teach people where the door is.


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be private, all they got is ENVY.


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I don't think people understand that you can literally drive someone to a point where they don't want to be bothered with you at all, on any level, whether it's a friendship, relationship, or family. It's only so much one person can take.


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People who date your ex swear you hate them 🤣 Like relax, nobody cares, it’s just your turn to suffer !


Emotionally intelligent people are a narcissist’s worst nightmare, and not because they’re loud or confrontational but because they see what others often miss. Someone with emotional intelligence can read tone, intention, inconsistency, and subtle shifts in behavior. They notice…


A narcissist needs supply the way lungs need air 🌬 They break you to your core, convince you you’re the problem, then glorify the next person as an upgrade.💔 They weaponise the new supply and still try to reel the old one back in. Pure confusion. Pure chaos. Your power move?…


When they finally go too far… and there’s no way back. They’ll do something so wild, so disrespectful, so unforgivable and then freeze, because even they don’t know how to spin it. No apology. No accountability. Just silence… because they can’t manipulate the damage they…


Going ghost is top tier self care. Narcissists study your moves so they can sabotage them. Silence protects what you’re building. Let them wonder. Let you heal ❤️


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