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M. Xander Duke

@_XanderDuke_

Handler, Keyholder, and Owner of good pups and boys; DMs open if you can handle it. Don’t want or need your money.

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Sometimes I'm busy with things and may take some time to get back to you, but I'm not ignoring you. Those that fail to respond never know what opportunities they're missing out on. You never know who might be on the other end of that conversation.


That is always the danger of an unlocked boy/slave, even those as experienced and well-trained as this one. Good that he was able to prevent inappropriate actions, but also a key reminder that unlocking should be limited and minimized to protect the boy from any accidents.

Had to take off my cage last night worrying i wouldn’t have privacy to do so the next day. Have to admit i had a moment of weakness… the useless slave dick tried to get harder than it had got used to, and i was desperate thinking holding it in my hand… i turned to AI for some…



I enjoy using those exact same straps on boys/pups, though they're much more likely to be face down instead. 😈

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Immediate demands are definitely the wrong model. That respect should be earned, not demanded. When earned it is real and provides the proper support. When demanded it is just a childish power trip from someone who doesn’t deserve it.

I’m honestly sick and tired of so called “dominant” men thinking they can boss me around, asking me to send pictures, videos etc and demanding shit when we’ve either never spoken before, or know each other or met etc. Be better than that 😑😮‍💨



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Just because you don’t like something, it doesn’t mean you have to hate on it Let people enjoy things ffs


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Dear submissives: I am embarrassed that I have to say this, but apparently it needs to be said. Just because you consider yourself a submissive, doesn't mean you have to submit to every 'Dom' or 'Master' who slides into your DMs or tries to hit you up for a conversation. Not…


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A submissive is not a lesser human. I want to be very clear about this, because the message seems to be often confused. A submissive is someone who is their 'best self' - doing their best work, most at peace, most mentally and emotionally balanced, most functional, most…


It's too bad when boys can't manage to be respectful and proper and instead become timid and scared. But I guess that's just part of their mindset, and requires me to prevail above it all to be there for the other boys that are still working to be good and improve themselves.


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This! I've found in many of my interactions that the biggest barrier to opening up a really profound D/s dynamic is that some fake Doms have been going around teaching boys to just do what they're told, even if they don't like it, to hold their silence and endure. To that i say,…

I’m honestly sick and tired of so called “dominant” men thinking they can boss me around, asking me to send pictures, videos etc and demanding shit when we’ve either never spoken before, or know each other or met etc. Be better than that 😑😮‍💨



I much prefer to be on the side of being positive and developing a boy to be better, which is even more work but feels a lot more fulfilling to me.

Different subs respond to different balances of praise or degradation. I will say that in my experience, if a sub or Dom only wants degradation/to degrade, that's a 🚩 to me



This is a very good listen for any sub/locked boys to push away any fears and how positive the experience of being locked has been for him in personal growth and development.

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It is quite often that a boy tells me that I know them better than they know themselves.

Today we welcome our favorite cumdump @MaxonCaged on the pod!! Join us as Maxon shares all about how he got into offering his hole for to hundreds of men plus some best practices for boys who want to do the same!! open.spotify.com/episode/3fzdUi…



There are going to be some boys who will have a much more strict and monitored regimen around their assigned tasks.

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Don’t hate me for this but I’m not much of a brat tamer. I like my subs obedient like a dog. I want them to want me, even if they end up finding out they bit more than they can chew I’ll push them through it, just give yourself to me willingly. nothing is hotter than that.


Good locked pup...that gives confidence to all the other locked boys/pups that they can be good and stay locked. 🔒

Update! Just went through TSA pre check locked! No issues at all! I will post a cage check on the plane 🔐😈



For anyone, it's all about continued training and challenging yourself to take that next step so you can be a better well-trained boy. You can't start at that point, but you can get there.

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I'm often in a lot of the same levels of professional projects, so I completely understand. It's why I'm inconsistent in my own presence around here.

I'm seriously overworking myself. My days are just waking up, working, working and working until midnight. 🤯 I'm about to break. Sorry if I can't post much.



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