Austin Dunham

It’s not “how do I keep a woman”. It’s how does keep YOU. Understand?

Women don’t realize how much psychological power they have over men. Their main goal is to pysop you into becoming the weaker version of yourself. This is not always conscious. It’s simply nature. And look at you being a good boy listening to her.

If you give a woman what she wants she will eventually punish you for it

Women will always want more and more. After the commitment, marriage, and children, you’ve already given that woman everything. Beyond that point, the only thing left to lose is the relationship itself.

Going out to clubs and bars to meet women is just taking damage. You’re taking damage. Late nights. Excess alcohol. Little ROI. Dating apps 1000x better If you hate on dating apps you just ugly

Dating in your early 20s with no money, no physique, no status: uphill battle against guys 5-10 years older with all three. Dating in your early 30s with all three built: downhill sprint against guys your age who wasted their 20s chasing instead of building. Timing determines…

Understanding women: 1000 hours of reading, watching YT videos, but zero results. Building attraction: gym 4x week, professional photos, interesting life, and exposure marketing. One path gives you theories to discuss on Reddit. The other path gives you dates. Choose…

Most men optimize their 20s for career and their 40s for family. This is backwards. Your 20s are for building skills and income. Your 30s are for scaling both wealth and family. Your 40s are for legacy and teaching. The energy required to raise kids properly is massive.…

The dopamine hit from meeting new women isn't the problem. The problem is thinking you need it to feel alive. If you're chasing new women because your life feels flat without them, you're not dating from abundance. You're self-medicating with validation. The addiction stops…

If you need AI to text a girl, the problem isn't your texting. The problem is you're texting a girl who doesn't want to hear from you. Attraction makes communication easy. Everything else is just you forcing it.

Women don't leave men for cheating nearly as often as they leave men for being boring. Infidelity proves other women want you. Being predictable, needy, and emotionally available proves nobody does. She'll rationalize staying with the first guy. She can't rationalize staying…

You can't build an empire while managing someone's emotional instability. The men who win long-term are the ones who chose their mission over keeping someone comfortable. She'll respect the man who left to become great more than the man who stayed and became mediocre trying to…

The dating market isn't broken. You're just finally seeing it clearly. 80% of women were always going to be incompatible with you. The difference now is you stopped pretending average was acceptable. Your standards didn't get too high. Your tolerance for mediocrity finally…

Your first real success with women doesn't teach you game. It teaches you detachment. You stop needing the outcome because you've already proven you can get it. That's the frequency women respond to. Pure Detatchment. When you move through dating like you've already won, you…

Women will tell you they want a nice guy who communicates his feelings. Then they'll sleep with the guy who left them on read for three days. Stop asking women what they want. Watch what they respond to. The fisherman knows the lake better than the fish knows itself.

You can't convince a woman to want you the same way you can't convince someone to prefer Coke over Pepsi. The decision happens before logic enters the room. She either feels it or she doesn't. And that feeling is based on signals you're sending. How you carry yourself. Whether…

Men who overspend on dates are operating from scarcity. They believe the transaction is: my resources for her time. But that's not how attraction works. She's not evaluating your wallet. She's evaluating your frame. Can you lead without seeking approval? Do you move with…

Before you book the reservation, send this text: "Let's grab drinks Tuesday at 8. I know a spot." If she responds with "What kind of place?" or "Can we do dinner instead?" you already have your answer. Women who are attracted don't negotiate the plan. They show up.

You got her number. Congratulations. You accomplished nothing. YES cold approach will make you more confident. But It will also keep you single. The 98% rejection rate builds thick skin. But thick skin doesn't get you dates. You learn how to handle rejection, not create…

The sooner you accept harsh truths about the world including women and human nature the faster you’re freed from the comforting lies you’ve been told your entire life. Most of what you were taught was designed to keep you agreeable, not capable. Question EVERYTHING. Think…