Benjamin Zulu Global
@benjaminzuluke
Benjamin Zulu is a counselling psychologist and life coach of international renown.
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Your job is not to heal toxic people. Your job is to heal the part of you that keeps connecting you to them. You accommodate people because you understand where they're coming from, but ignore where they're going. Some are coming from trauma but they're not going anywhere.
Stop dating people who resent your ambition. If life hands you a cactus, at least don't sit on it. It's not about who you attract. Good people attract bad people every time because they want benefits of association. What matters is who you entertain and settle for.
If you surround yourself with dirt, you'll spend the rest of your life cleaning up. That 'I hope they'll change' mantra you're using is just dirt. You are not choosing that person's potential to change; you are choosing their present reality.
Mixed signals are, indeed, clear signals. If someone keeps you guessing, they're not the one. Either they're not decided or they're not prepared. Either they want you but can not afford you, or they can afford you but are unsure whether you're the best option.
A modern day comedy is when a side chick thinks she's the only one.He came to you because he's unfaithful and you're in a cheating arrangement, so on what basis do you think he'll be faithful to you? But of course many are in it for the money, to sell their souls for a day's meal
You'll never be satisfied while you're with some people. They give bare minimum and make it sound like their best.They'll give you just enough to keep you on a string and to ask for more is a battle. Once you realise it's not about love but mind games, you must stop loving them.
I hope you never stop being a good person because of experiences with bad people. How they treated you was a reflection of them, not you. Let their evil deeds wash off you without you adapting their low vibration.
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