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i have been saying this!!
new study out confirms something I've long believed: watching Instagram Reels or Youtube Shorts is basically twice as bad for you as TikTok
A mutual friend asked them both to lunch and then "suddenly had to leave" once they both got there
Burn these two sentences into your brain. Repeat them every time you train.
The most hard-hitting 2 sentences in all of talent development research:
deleting later but my hot take of the day is that you can be there for your friends without expecting anything in return but you can also be sad when they dont show up for you
it seems if you can hold a deep belief in someone’s underlying goodness, relationship tension dissipates more easily “i am hurt by you” does not require “so you are bad” “a belief in each others' hearts and basic underlying goodness, an anchor through the vicissitudes of life”
The first time I told my wife "I love you" she replied "I know." That was about 20 years ago and today we're celebrating 17 years of marriage. I don't talk about my marriage much here — I'm a private person, I'm wary of anything that resembles relationship discourse, and I'm a…
i don’t know anything but my experience of aging so far has been a series of sudden& humiliating realizations that every cliche made meaningless by constant exposure (“be yourself” etc) contains a completely overwhelming degree of truth that u can’t understand until you just do
it's weird that at a given age, 45 say, someone can't just write down the compressed/compiled topline notes on everything they've learned about life, and then just hand that to someone at 20, saving them 25 years of lessons. why that doesn't work is a somewhat instructive Q
I heard someone say once to choose your partner based on who would be there with you and how they would act when you lose your parents or people you love. That perspective changed everything for me.
perfect scissor statement for many the self-empowering high agency reframe of addiction helps unravel it, and for many others it creates a shame spiral ("i'm choosing it so I must be bad") that deepens the addiction. 'notice how you feel when using' is more robust advice imo
>complain that giving my phone number to Quickbooks led to daily spam calls >post goes viral >get contacted by Intuit's Office of the President >they want my phone number
>create Google Voice number >get no calls for 12+ months >give the number to Quickbooks when they ask me to verify my identity >immediately start getting multiple spam calls every day
it's easy to accidentally hurt people when you think so little of yourself that you believe your words/actions don't matter
my last relationship fell apart a week ago in the beginning, I just wanted the opportunity to make her happy in the end, I just wanted the opportunity to make myself happy I've never had a "monkey's paw" lesson with so much clarity before
Unfortunately, this can happen quite late in a relationship if you've been extremely forgiving or accommodating for a long time. Conflict avoidance is way riskier than those who practice it realize.
I thought I was bad at conflict until I found someone who I'm actually compatible with, who also handles conflict well. turns out it's easy if you: actually like each other, have the same values + goals, and trust the other has your back. embarrassingly low bar, and yet.
the most SF thing ever is for them to advertise the swing i helped build that got killed by SF’s own bureaucratic paperwork
The swing was just featured in an ad on national TV! The ad played during the college football game of the week Saturday night. Wondering if you'd be willing to share your thoughts on the swing getting shown to a national television audience?youtube.com/watch?v=9jIZgg…
something weird is happening to dynamodb.us-east-1.amazonaws.com maybe it's just my machine somehow but there's no DNS record anymore on Google or Cloudflare
I think real love is the quiet desire to witness life together, to make the ordinary sacred simply because they’re there to see it with you.
examples from my own life through the ages: -begins with deception → ends with betrayal -begins with wanting access without investment → takes what he can get, disappears -begins with extreme intensity → burns out quickly
“the ending is often encoded in the way something begins.” —my friend (a genius)
My computer science college professors used to look down on programming -- it's too volatile to deserve formal education (new paradigms and languages come out all the time). Instead, we did all kinds of theory: types, probability, queuing. Back then, it felt anachronistic and…
Harvard and Stanford students tell me their professors don't understand AI and the courses are outdated. If elite schools can't keep up, the credential arms race is over. Self-learning is the only way now.
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