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Melly Jones

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Seriously having issues detaching. It's harder when there are multiple situations going on at once.


Crappy day today. My detach function was offline completely. Spent way too much time brooding.


To go back to the way it was before. I am still so in love with Tom, though. That makes it much more difficult to focus.


A little bit of hope. It's a little scary but i'm going 2 try. In the meantime, I still have work on me 2 do. I don't wnt the marriage...


Have to figure out what those needs are and try to get my husband to meet them. It was very inspiring for me to hear her thoughts. I have


Turned the power back on. & I was lk a starving child. wld do anything 2 fill those needs. When he cut us off, it was lk a death. Now we...


Fell for my friend. That I had pushed my needs away to take care of my spouse. And when Tom met those needs, it was like he turned the...


We mostly talked abt marriage issues & my friend. She was very helpful in helping me put my feelings in2 words. & framing the reasons I...


My 1st therapy session went rlly well. Lynn is close 2 my age & also had a wall of books (always a bonus). i'm starting out w/ weekly visits


To know.. I expected more from him than that. Guess I am learning that I shouldn't.


So impersonal, and it hurt my feelings. So instead of saying, hey that was a crappy response, I just said thanks and I thought he would want


Aagh, when will I learn? I emailed my friend to tell him of my therapy today (he had been asking) and I got like a three word response...


Today I have my first therapy session! I hope I like her! Currently trying to wake up and get out of bed :-)


My brain is about to explode after reading three more chapters of Beattie. It's a life changer. I called another potential therapist today.


Good morning. I'm making it a good day so far! I didn't read any Beattie yesterday and really should have. My focus is on myself today.


Overall average day, which is still gd. 2 weeks ago I was a mess so ths is progress. Thanking God 4 his mercy & his grace. <3 to all.


Still apathetic about the marriage. I keep hoping that will change. Taking it day by day.


I was planning to do this anyway, but I resent that I'm the one who needs fixing based on his assessment. Slightly disappointed that I'm...


And now that he's figured it out, guess who needs therapy? You got it. Me. Now the boss has spoken. He has agreed to join me if necessary


On top of that, husband has come to the conclusion that we are having marital problems. Finally. I have been saying this for months...


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