outofhiscontrol's profile picture. Expert by experience. Raising awareness of coercive control. Don’t like my views, politely move on. Traumatised victim. Be kind.

Out of Control

@outofhiscontrol

Expert by experience. Raising awareness of coercive control. Don’t like my views, politely move on. Traumatised victim. Be kind.

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Children living in a home that is coercive and controlling is a nightmare. It is harmful. It is a neverending back and forth of emotions to suit the behaviours of the perpetrator parent. They yo-yo between extremes. It’s an all or nothing environment. This is harmful to children.

outofhiscontrol's tweet image. Children living in a home that is coercive and controlling is a nightmare. It is harmful. It is a neverending back and forth of emotions to suit the behaviours of the perpetrator parent. They yo-yo between extremes. It’s an all or nothing environment. This is harmful to children.

Scary findings but not surprising. Is there similar research for public law?

These findings expose a troubling reality: too many children are being separated from their primary carers under shadowy circumstances. Our full qualitative report is due in Spring 2026 but we believe these early insights are urgent. righttoequality.org/action-against…



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This interview is the first time I’ve heard anyone know what I went through & how I felt, how I feel, how it has ruined my life & never goes away. Like grief, mourning the loss of how my life should have been Thank you Jaye Griffiths. Report all abusers! Mothers Daughters Sons


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Mrs Justice Judd said "any findings of alienation purported to be made by Ms Gill” could not be relied on. She also disregarded the judgment of the district judge. The ruling could have potential ramifications for other cases where Gill has made assessments.


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The independent review into the murder of Sara Sharif exposes a devastating truth: the family court, social-work system and guardian framework meant to protect her instead completely failed her.

Right2Equality's tweet image. The independent review into the murder of Sara Sharif exposes a devastating truth: the family court, social-work system and guardian framework meant to protect her instead completely failed her.

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Spectres and Spectators: Why Children Still Go Unheard and Unseen in #FamilyCourt Proceedings drelizabethdalgarno.substack.com/p/spectres-and…

SheraFamily's tweet image. Spectres and Spectators: Why Children Still Go Unheard and Unseen in #FamilyCourt Proceedings drelizabethdalgarno.substack.com/p/spectres-and…

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25 November is the international day for the elimination of violence against women. This year, like every year for the past few, we’ll be posting the UK women killed by men since #IDEVAW last year. Starting at 8.30am and commemorating one woman every 5 mins.


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My heart is heavy 🖤 I talked about Sara Sharif’s case in my masterclass today. The review is out today. An inexperienced social worker and a Judge missed key facts and there were a catalogue of missed opportunities to save her life 🖤 Those key facts? For 16 years he’d…

thecrimeanalyst's tweet image. My heart is heavy 🖤 I talked about Sara Sharif’s case in my masterclass today. The review is out today. 

An inexperienced social worker and a Judge missed key facts and there were a catalogue of missed opportunities to save her life 🖤

Those key facts? For 16 years he’d…

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These findings expose a troubling reality: too many children are being separated from their primary carers under shadowy circumstances. Our full qualitative report is due in Spring 2026 but we believe these early insights are urgent. righttoequality.org/action-against…


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📢 Survey Findings Released! We at Right to Equality are proud to share the results of our recent survey into child removals in private family law proceedings across England and Wales.

Right2Equality's tweet image. 📢 Survey Findings Released!

We at Right to Equality are proud to share the results of our recent survey into child removals in private family law proceedings across England and Wales.

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25 November is the international day for the elimination of violence against women. This year, like every year for the past few, we’ll be posting the UK women killed by men since #IDEVAW last year. Starting at 8am and commemorating one woman every 5 mins.


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Govt must back Bar Council recommendations: legal aid for all domestic abuse cases in family court and scrap the means test so survivors have representation. ➡️ theguardian.com/law/2025/nov/0…

David_Challen's tweet image. Govt must back Bar Council recommendations: legal aid for all domestic abuse cases in family court and scrap the means test so survivors have representation.
➡️ theguardian.com/law/2025/nov/0…

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Another VICTORY: Finally, so-called “parental alienation” expert Melanie Gill has been discredited #family court, but now ALL cases where this junk science has been used to take children from mums must be reviewed. supportnotseparation.blog/2025/11/03/all…


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🚨 CHILD SEXUAL ABUSER, THOMAS WALLER, WALKS OUT OF COURT AFTER BEING CONVICTED OF R@PING A 3 YEAR OLD❗️ HOW CAN YOU WALK OUT OF COURT AFTER BEING CONVICTED OF SOMETHING SO HEINOUS? 😲 GIVE THIS SCUM THE DEATH PENALTY ⚠️


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Totally agree with ⁦@David_Challen⁩ “Judges routinely struggle to understand it and we see basic myths surrounding domestic abuse playing out in courts.” Great piece on coercive control 10 years on by ⁦@CosmopolitanUKcosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/a66…


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Families bereaved by domestic abuse are calling for suicides linked to coercive control to be investigated as potential homicides. A stark reminder of how far the justice system still has to go in recognising the full impact of abuse. theguardian.com/society/2025/o…


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Overjoyed about this #FamilyLaw @clairethrossell🙏 'Family courts will no longer work on the presumption that having contact with both parents is in the best interests of a child...a victory for children’s rights, for survivors and for justice” @DrProudman theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/o…


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A police investigation should have taken place when Virginia Roberts Giuffre first made a complaint about Prince Andrew in 2015, the former chief prosecutor at the Crown Prosecution Service, Nazir Afzal, tells Channel 4 News.


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This study into #coercivecontrol reveals a psychological “playbook” - the women described cycles of unpredictable behaviour: tenderness followed by sudden withdrawal, verbal cruelty softened by moments of warmth: theconversation.com/how-domestic-a… #DomesticAbuseAwarenessMonth


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Excellent! Serious sex offenders automatically lose parental rights over their own children by Govt amendment to the Victims & Courts Bill. Will protect 000s children & save 000s women from enforced negotiation with an abuser, about a child’s schooling/medical care/trips abroad


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