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Kiara D. Perkins

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Marriage and Family Therapist, Purpose Coach. I help you improve your mindset so you can fulfill your purpose, without blocks or baggage. What's blocking you? ⬇

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After working as a marriage and family therapist, I've noticed trends among adults, children, and family dynamics. Here's what I've observed: Most people are overwhelmed and controlled by their emotions. The worst part? They are blaming other people for it.


You're going to die someday. So am I. Not to be morbid, but this is the wake-up call to anyone who is cruising on by in their life, thinking they have tomorrow. Don't wait to have that hard conversation with your spouse. You want reconnection? Say so. You'd be surprised…


I've experienced heartbreak after two painful breakups. If I had to start over with healing and building healthy relationships from scratch, here’s exactly what I’d do: Step 1: I’d begin by journaling my intentions to reconnect with my authentic self and heal from past wounds.…


Manifestation tip: The better you feel when you think about your dream/goal/desire, the closer you are to achieving it.


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If you struggle with self-love and boundaries, try this hack: Instead of asking, "Do they like me?" Switch it to: "How do they add to my life?"


Perspective is everything. But most people struggle because this change can seem like studying Chinese at first. It isn't easy. To begin the reframe, say "What's another way I can look at this?" Baby steps and give yourself grace through the process.


Manifestation tip: The better you feel when you think about your dream/goal/desire, the closer you are to achieving it.


Don't sell yourself short by thinking you don't deserve it yet, or aren't good enough. Those limiting beliefs about yourself and your worthiness don't serve you and also rob your potential clients of an amazing experience.


Imperfect execution beats perfect execution every time. Analyzing every possible aspect not only slows you down, but it’s nearly impossible to account for every detail. Put it out there, then adjust as you go.


Here's a pattern I've noticed in most people: Extreme pain is often a catalyst for change. If your situation isn't painful enough for you to require changes, nothing will change and the status quo will reign supreme. This is how 90% of people live. Living at effect, rather…


Instead of creating laws to prevent outside forces from throwing you off your focus, learn self-management. Change is much easier from the inside out.


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The world is full of victims. We've all been there. Some make it out, but the vast majority don't. Victimhood is a debilitating mental condition that keeps 90% (or more) of people frustrated, broke, helpless, and stuck.


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