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Tes Shaefer

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Self-love is so misunderstood. It’s not only about accepting your flaws, but accepting that you can be better — and working towards becoming the greatest version of yourself.


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When a man demands respect, shows assertiveness, and requests the money he believes he's worth, he's called 'confident' in the workplace. When a woman does all those things in the workplace, why is it that she's sometimes referred to as a 'bitch'?


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People who regularly complain about my content and follow me, need to learn how to use the unfollow button. If you love yourself, why do you voluntarily follow someone who riles you up? Preserve your peace and unfollow my ass.


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Nearly 63% of Instagram users report being miserable, a higher share than for any other social network econ.st/2L9VYFV


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I'm so sick of men who imply that some issues women face in society are "made up". I guess admitting issues exist also means having to face the reality of their privilege, or their role as potential perpetrators. It's the equivalent of people who say racism isn't real.


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“Victims of revenge porn suffer from the moment their most intimate moments are shared online. The fact they then have to face being publicly identified if they report the crime is unfair, unjust and unacceptable." bit.ly/2u9V6qe


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How does PTSD affect marriages? thisisptsd.com/true-story-pst…


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Online abuse—like nearly any type of abuse—relies on a victim’s sense of shame. When a victim gives into that shame by going silent, the abuser wins. Conversely, victory is only possible when a victim refuses to go silent. bit.ly/2DHMhFV #SpeakUp


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Kites rise highest against the wind - not with it. - Winston Churchill #RiseUp #StayStrong


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“Any woman who chooses to behave like a full human being should be warned that the armies of the status quo will treat her as something of a dirty joke . . . She will need her sisterhood.” #GloriaSteinem #endrevengeporn #notyourwin #strongertogether #NIMMC #badassarmy


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"My mission in life is not merely to survive but to THRIVE and to do so with some PASSION, some COMPASSION, some HUMOR, and some STYLE."

KimCaptures's tweet image. "My mission in life is not merely to survive but to THRIVE and to do so with some PASSION, some COMPASSION, some HUMOR, and some STYLE."

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Stop shaming women for doing consensual, healthy things. Sex is not dirty. It is not shameful. Our bodies are not shameful simply because they are female. Just STOP shaming. #endrevengeporn #nomoreshame #notyourwin #feminist #metoo


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I'm not 'sick,' I have PTSD fb.me/HQrEkPNz


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You should not underestimate the role #police play in #gangstalking. Last week I saw 2 traffic controls, I suspect they were not real, but some sort of #trap set up for me. Not advisable to go near there -- #Polizei


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Gun control isn't the problem, racism is . Make stricter gun laws and the government will only use them to deny fire arms to law abiding black and brown people and the white, male, nut jobs will still get weapons just as easy as ever. #GunControl


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The criminal component of the law went into effect today, making it a misdemeanor offense in the city to share someone’s intimate photos or videos online without their consent. Perpetrators can face up to one year in jail and a $1,000 fine. bit.ly/2sFGbFE


How can you tell the difference between if your man is flirting with another woman or just "being nice"? Just curious.


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"Do validate and listen. Listen to your loved one’s story and pain. Part of the healing for survivors of emotional abuse is having a safe other(s) witness/hear/validate their story of pain and healing." — Andrea Schneider tcat.tc/2nWk894 via @andrea_schneid


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