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The last Friday in July marked my last day at @TechCabal. I wrote about my time there, but also the time before my time there, at Dá, at Zikoko, and all the lessons I collected along the way like infinity stones. medium.com/@oluwatobiafol…


Bro. She literally grew two babies at the same time. This stupid conversation is pissing me off all over again

There's been a lot of discourse on this app the last few days about postpartum bodies, and I just want to remind you that more often than not, pregnancy will irrevocably change one's body, for better or for worse, regardless of what you do.

mrs_g_rider's tweet image. There's been a lot of discourse on this app the last few days about postpartum bodies, and I just want to remind you that more often than not, pregnancy will irrevocably change one's body, for better or for worse, regardless of what you do.


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It was surreal to speak on a panel at PiggyVest OpenHouse in Lagos to thousands of people today! Enjoyed contributing & learnt so much from the my co-panelists @FuadXIV @Babajiide ❤️


This looks really good!

I’m thrilled to share the official trailer for our short film; Tell It No More. It is a heartfelt piece about the lessons women inherit about marriage & the courage it takes to unlearn them. Come watch it for free at TAFM on Oct 17 & Lagos Fringe Festival in November.



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My new painting. The Uninvited.

AnthonyAzekwoh's tweet image. My new painting. 
The Uninvited.
AnthonyAzekwoh's tweet image. My new painting. 
The Uninvited.


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My new painting. The Uninvited.

AnthonyAzekwoh's tweet image. My new painting. 
The Uninvited.
AnthonyAzekwoh's tweet image. My new painting. 
The Uninvited.

THEE whiniest bitches. I’ve never seen such

Men are sooooo sensitive 😂😂😂😂😂😂



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For a world where girls can thrive and grow in a supportive, peaceful & protected environment that allows them to appreciate their existence & feel unburdened. Happy international day of the girl child ❤️

ChigozieObi_'s tweet image. For a world where girls can thrive and grow in a supportive, peaceful & protected environment that allows them to appreciate their existence & feel unburdened. Happy international day of the girl child ❤️

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“His feelings are valid” No ❤️


Facts. I rinse am tire

One of the best albums I’ve ever listened to

daniella_ae's tweet image. One of the best albums I’ve ever listened to


BADDIES😍

We need to normalize doing GRWM in Yoruba cause see how sweet this video is.



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i have so many thoughts. first of all, this is what happens with influencers with no interest in the space getting into journalism. there are outliers who use influencing to get a leg up because companies these days prefer follower numbers over actual substance.

BOJ: ... I love Aṣa a lot, that's like one of my favourite artistes. MADAME JOYCE: Is it bad that I don't know who that is? BOJ:



LMFAOOOOOOOO

This just goes to show that a lot of women don’t have the emotional intelligence to handle expressive men, and that’s exactly why men don’t speak up.



Imagine having kids with this

uxtobiaf's tweet image. Imagine having kids with this

It’s not just about what she said, it’s her expression, her body language is sickening. When my wife was pregnant of our baby I was more stressed out than she ever was and if you ask her till this day she would tell you she enjoyed being pregnant because it’s all flex for her.



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Because present fathers are doing their jobs. We are not praising a fish for swimming. That’s what he signed up for and whatever attention he wants should be given to his wife. Grow up!

ทวีตนี้ไม่สามารถใช้งานได้อีกต่อไป

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I wrote this 🧍🏽

Nigerian men are using AI to harass women online, digitally “undressing” and dressing them for laughs. This is violence disguised as fun.

wearegst's tweet image. Nigerian men are using AI to harass women online, digitally “undressing” and dressing them for laughs.

This is violence disguised as fun.
wearegst's tweet image. Nigerian men are using AI to harass women online, digitally “undressing” and dressing them for laughs.

This is violence disguised as fun.


All I’m going to say about this inane conversation is that I hope more women opt out of having kids with these nignogs🙏🏾


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Me, I’m dismissing it.

Maraji wasn’t dismissing men’s experiences. She even said it’s valid. For men who want to be checked in on when they become fathers, etc. There’s a better way to express your feelings without centering yourself in a situation where someone else’s body and life are on the line.



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A’ja Wilson becomes the first player in WNBA history to win Most Valuable Player, Defensive Player of the Year and Finals MVP in a single season.

PopBase's tweet image. A’ja Wilson becomes the first player in WNBA history to win Most Valuable Player, Defensive Player of the Year and Finals MVP in a single season.

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His feelings are not valid. Explaining this to grown ass men is silly. All of you are deeply unserious.

I just watched that gentleman’s video on childbearing, and I want to begin by saying that his feelings are valid. It’s clear that he desires to be seen, and appreciated during a sensitive season. That's his child too. However, good intentions can sometime come with bad…



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