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Cause i don't believe I'm worth staying for.


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part of me still wonders why.


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I realized people only like you when you're easy to benefit from. When you say yes, stay quiet, and let things slide, they love you. But once you start saying no, setting boundaries, and standing on what's right for you, everything changes. Suddenly you got an attitude. Suddenly…


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No one knows how much I cried this year.


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nobody talks about how exhausting it is to live between “things will get better” and “i can’t handle this anymore.” your emotions swing constantly, leaving you feeling both hopeful and defeated in the same day.


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Bertahan hidup pun already one of my biggest achievements this year.


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Having people who love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you are a burden, still love you when everything is a mess, and still love you when you are in the wrong, those are your people. To be truly loved is to be loved even when it is inconvenient.


Presence is not something small. Being there, listening, staying when things get heavy. Sometimes people don't realise the value of someone's presence til it becomes absence. Jadi selagi masih ada peluang, hargai. Say thank you, show care and don't take their efforts for granted.


Hargai orang yang selagi ada dengan you. Not everyone in your life is meant to stay, and not everyone who left does so without reason. Ada orang yang memilih untuk terus ada, even though it is tiring,walaupun tak sempurna.


I don't blame you entirely


Sayang is actually a beautiful Malay word.


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I wish people understood that when someone seems to overexplain, it’s often because of how much they’ve been misunderstood. They’re trying to give you information that they assume is hard to understand based on how they’ve been treated. This deserves compassion, not criticism.


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2025 was a hard year. i fought many silent battles, wiped my own tears and survived. praying that 2026 will be easier.


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