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This tremendous world I have inside me

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You know that thing Dostoevsky wrote about gambling? It’s like that. When you’re surrounded by endless possibilities, one of the hardest things to do is pass them up.


In every relationship, one person always likes the other a bit more, that’s just human nature. And honestly, things tend to work best when she’s the one who loves a little harder. Women thrive on emotional connection, and when she admires and respects her guy, the relationship…

Relationships work better when… A: The woman loves a man more B: The man loves a woman more Are you male or female?



There’s a Dave Chappelle bit about Anthony Bourdain I think about a lot. He said he once knew a guy who got divorced, lost everything, ended up working at Foot Locker, and it never occurred to him to kill himself. Meanwhile, Anthony Bourdain seemingly had it all.


I met a girl in Montreal five years ago. She went to U of T. Pretty, sweet, a little lost. A few years later she moved to South Korea for online classes. Got a ton of cosmetic surgery. Changed her whole face. Now she’s always in Dubai, posting five star hotels, fancy dinners,…


The guy who’s been on 100 dinner/drink dates at night will always have better social instincts than the one who’s been on 100 coffee dates on a park bench watching squirrels in the daytime.


Daytime first dates are a mistake. The best first date is in the evening. When the lights are low and the energy shifts. Ideally over dinner or drinks. The focus should be on each other, not the world around you. That’s when you find out if there’s real attraction.

The ideal first date, to me, is one where both parties can afford to divert some attention to a shared *other thing* i.e. park walk, a zoo/aquarium, botanical gardens, farmer’s market



Heartbreak feels like loss. You gave everything and still didn’t get the outcome you wanted. Afterward, you replay the moments like film. What if I’d said this, done that, stayed calmer, cared less? You search for reasons. One difficult truth is that love isn’t always enough.…


I live in a very liberal city. Most of the women I date are liberal. I’m more moderate, even conservative in some ways. And here’s what I’ve noticed: even the ones with the loudest takes about AI, war, Trump, Elon, the world ending, still date me, still enjoy my company, still…


I talk to every woman the same way - light, playful, a touch flirtatious. Some say it risks overstepping. It hasn’t. On a date, flirt lightly with the hostess or the waitress. Not because you want them, but because it shows ease, charm, play. Everyone wants to feel something.

How to gain love & respect from the world

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One of the biggest mistakes I see guys make on dating apps is oversharing. Their profiles read like a resume: job title, school, intentions, whether they want kids, politics, everything. They think the more they lay out, the more likely they’ll “find someone who likes them for…


I’ve been so locked in that I haven’t replied to any of my Hinge matches.

kafkaex's tweet image. I’ve been so locked in that I haven’t replied to any of my Hinge matches.
kafkaex's tweet image. I’ve been so locked in that I haven’t replied to any of my Hinge matches.

Things rarely collapse all at once. They erode slowly. Two millimeters at a time. A push, a pause, a wait. Repeat it long enough and one day you look back and realize you’ve given up miles without noticing. This is how societies lose themselves.


Dating and the job market run on the same rules: selection, signaling, offers. You are the product. Your profile is the landing page. Photos and prompts are the resume. Instagram is the backchannel reference check. If you don’t stop the scroll, you don’t get the interview. A…

Dating and job markets operate in the same exact way Few understand this



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