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Dr Peter D’Lima

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Psychologist. Adventurer. Positive Psychology. Change. Unified Societies. Co-founder: @nottheeasyway1 Tweets own views. 🌎 🚵‍♂️🏋🏽🎾🧗‍♂️⛺️🏔🌈

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This philosophy is why I set up a psychology service called Not The Easy Way @NotTheEasyWay1 Less time pathologising Less time reducing unwanted emotions/thoughts More time encouraging the pursuit of meaning More time broadening experiences & developing skills Follow us!

Don't tell the kids to not feel that way Don't tell the kids that you'll take the feeling away Don't set life up so that they don't feel the feeling Instead, encourage them to #DARE & go on the adventure with them! #ACT #TwitterEPs #mentalhealth

peterdlimaedpsy's tweet image. Don't tell the kids to not feel that way 
Don't tell the kids that you'll take the feeling away 
Don't set life up so that they don't feel the feeling

Instead, encourage them to #DARE & go on the adventure with them! 

#ACT #TwitterEPs #mentalhealth


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We're offering to host free Speak Space events at any UK university in honour of #CharlieKirk's commitment to the free exchange of ideas. Please get in touch or share if you know of a uni group that would host Speak Space builds understanding, tolerance, & our common humanity.

NotTheEasyWay1's tweet image. We're offering to host free Speak Space events at any UK university in honour of #CharlieKirk's commitment to the free exchange of ideas.

Please get in touch or share if you know of a uni group that would host

Speak Space builds understanding, tolerance, & our common humanity.

If you disagree with someone, ask questions. If you get a response, listen. If views make you uncomfortable, ask yourself why. If you start name-calling, take a breath. Don't intimidate. Don't kill. Don't celebrate their death. A good man was killed because of bigotry. RIP.

I saw this video this morning on my feed and I think it so eloquently explains what Charlie Kirk was put on this earth to do. “When people stop talking, that’s when you get violence, that is when civil war happens”



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.@KonstantinKisin: “This has to be the moment when we all say, ‘Enough of your bullshit. Words are not violence. Silence is not violence. Violence is violence, and it’s completely unacceptable. And it has to end.’ ”


Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

With respect Prime Minister, policy should be informed by sober research, not highly emotive performance art, no matter how powerful the acting is. Here’s some incel research we conducted with support from @CommissionCE and presented to the @CommonsWEC. gov.uk/government/pub…


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The knee-jerk reaction to a fictional series is the antithesis of our Magnificent Boys Project Demonise Assume negative intent Elevate negative role models Tell boys what to think vs Encourage strength See positive potential Elevate positive role models Explore views

NotTheEasyWay1's tweet image. The knee-jerk reaction to a fictional series is the antithesis of our Magnificent Boys Project

Demonise
Assume negative intent 
Elevate negative role models
Tell boys what to think 

vs

Encourage strength
See positive potential 
Elevate positive role models
Explore views

Netflix's hit show Adolescence is to be shown in secondary schools, the government has confirmed. But will airing the hit series in schools go any way to tackling misogyny and violence in boys and young men?



Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

Freedom of speech was not explicitly stated as a 'British Value' in schools when the Prevent strategy was introduced. If you only promote vague notions of tolerance and respect without the counterbalance of free speech, you end up teaching children to quietly tolerate anything.

JD Vance went to the Munich Security Conference and roasted the entire continent of Europe for being petty tyrants and criminalizing freedom of speech, including a British man arrested for praying at an abortion clinic.



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"When psychologists [...] listened to the voice of the child to the exclusion of all other perspectives and evidence, when they allowed advocacy of an ideological perspective [...] to replace professional rigour and a duty of care, they failed children." explore.bps.org.uk/content/bpsdeb…


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Society is quick to highlight negative male role models. youtu.be/jTr6UCLE2LE But what about the good ones? Who is guiding boys & young men positively? We spoke to @CostelloWilliam about his friend @ChrisWillx Who else should teenage boys be directed towards?


Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

Discussed @CostelloWilliam incel research youtu.be/jTr6UCLE2LE Incels see themselves as ineffective in romantic relationships & can be misogynistic but Do we see emotional pain in men? Do we reject men who are in pain? What does this mean for how we support teenage boys?


Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

What's the one lesson you wanted in school but never got? 💘 youtu.be/jTr6UCLE2LE @CostelloWilliam discusses how helping young men become better partners is a laudable goal. Without it, someone else will fill that vacuum. #TwitterEPs #MentalHealth #edutwitter


Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

We spoke to @CostelloWilliam about his incel research. Incels perceive themselves to be ineffective in romantic relationships & can engage in misogynistic behaviour. What can we learn from this group about male mental health? Video out Monday! buzzsprout.com/1716398/episod…


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NEW on Genspect: Educational psychologists support the Cass Review's recommendations on gender identity services. We're proud to promote this discussion, urging professionals to prioritize empathy and a holistic approach to children’s needs. 🏫 Read more: genspect.org/educational-ps…

genspect's tweet image. NEW on Genspect: Educational psychologists support the Cass Review's recommendations on gender identity services. We're proud to promote this discussion, urging professionals to prioritize empathy and a holistic approach to children’s needs. 🏫
Read more: genspect.org/educational-ps…

Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

The parents' revolution has begun in the UK. Parents are rising up to take collective action for a smartphone free childhood. It will happen in many other countries by the end of this year: afterbabel.com/p/the-revoluti…


Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

I signed this letter to prompt government to examine the ideological capture of organisations In psychology, the people who should have asked questions explored multiple possibilities protected Instead stopped asking followed only one possibility caused harm Why? How?

🚨Breaking🚨 Along with over 130 politicians, clinicians, lawyers, social workers, detransitioners, academics and campaigners, I have written to @RishiSunak, demanding a Public Inquiry into the infiltration of gender ideology and the harming of children. Please read and share.

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Along with over 130 politicians, clinicians, lawyers, social workers, detransitioners, academics and campaigners, I have written to @RishiSunak, demanding a Public Inquiry into the infiltration of gender ideology and the harming of children.

Please read and share.
JamesEsses's tweet image. 🚨Breaking🚨

Along with over 130 politicians, clinicians, lawyers, social workers, detransitioners, academics and campaigners, I have written to @RishiSunak, demanding a Public Inquiry into the infiltration of gender ideology and the harming of children.

Please read and share.
JamesEsses's tweet image. 🚨Breaking🚨

Along with over 130 politicians, clinicians, lawyers, social workers, detransitioners, academics and campaigners, I have written to @RishiSunak, demanding a Public Inquiry into the infiltration of gender ideology and the harming of children.

Please read and share.
JamesEsses's tweet image. 🚨Breaking🚨

Along with over 130 politicians, clinicians, lawyers, social workers, detransitioners, academics and campaigners, I have written to @RishiSunak, demanding a Public Inquiry into the infiltration of gender ideology and the harming of children.

Please read and share.


Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

The @AEPsychologists emails weekly updates of all things in the news relevant to EP practice...and have yet to make any reference to the #cassreview it's about time there was a review into the practice of all Educational Psychologists in relation to gender affirming practices.

NEW: significant development here - Puberty blockers paused for children in Scotland bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotla…



Dr Peter D’Lima reposted

It's not enough to just point out to boys how appalling this is. We need to give them a better story. One in which they're still strong confident young men. But also young men with integrity, responsibility & virtue with something to offer the world.

NotTheEasyWay1's tweet image. It's not enough to just point out to boys how appalling this is.

We need to give them a better story.

One in which they're still strong confident young men.

But also young men with integrity, responsibility & virtue with something to offer the world.

Dear white men. You’re fucked. You’re being replaced because none of you have children. Even those of you bitching about the replacement online like little girls don’t find the gumption to fuck. I see white men bragging about having 5 kids as if it’s an achievement. lol.…



Inner city Non-selective Culturally diverse, but culturally cohesive Best progress nationally Kids with special needs make exceptional progress Average exclusions Safe environment Happy kids Yet Michaela is shunned. We should be curious about what works & why. @Miss_Snuffy

High Court upholds prayer ban: An inside look at the UK's strictest school with Katharine Birbalsingh (@Miss_Snuffy)



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